Saturday, May 3, 2014

What age is for you?

Age is just a number.

If there's a gap between age, would you find it hard to communicate? I mean there might be different in thinking, lifestyle as well as level of maturity. However, there must be certain percent of peoples who can join in the topic of conversation with the younger or older one. Some people are advance at age yet, they are as seems a kid. Whereas, some can be very mature in thinking though they're just that young. By the way, i like someone who is older than me in the sense of thought. The way they look at things are so much different and sometimes awaken me. They're my eye-opener for this world. At times, others can see what your can't see.

People often says an older husband and a younger wife are almost perfect. I mean a pure relationship, not those who married yet find another young woman. The husband would be very 'sayang' the wife. Of course the wife cannot be too childish la. Every relationship there must be problems, is both want to dissolve together or not. No stereotype, a bigger wife and younger husband does makes some differences. In this, husband must be not so concern about man's authority, like everything must listen to him and he is the most in authority. Please la, woman still can live without you. Not flexible at all. That one is not my cup of tea. Should ask wife for opinion in respect to her. True, some wife really can tolerate and compromise with husband just because of love that never fades.
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It's another story. What if one day your mother had left (passed away, divorce and so forth), your father remarried your ex-classmates. Can you accept it? Why yes, why not?
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Your junior does better than you. When you go for job interview, he is the interviewer. How do you feel and what's your response? Actually, it doesn't matter who is above you as long as you do the best. If you don't want someone better than you, then prove to them.

Asian, had been bounded by the traditions, not sure about western. Someone who is older than you must sit in a higher position. Why? I don't deny we need to respect to them but they also need to humble right? They're older doesn't mean they might be right. Just like some parents, always scolding the children yet they can't see themselves. Always remember that no one is perfect, human will still makes mistake.

It's just the way you think... I might be wrong, do correct me! (:

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