Don’t let go once you have hold it.

There’s a man who lives a simple life at a village in his middle age. Every day, he will ride his motorcycle everywhere he wishes. A slightly grey curly hair, specs, an old-pattern t-shirt, four-quarter pants and slippers are his outward appearance, which is typically an Asian ‘uncle’. However, he carries an interesting story behind him.

During his youth time, he ran away with his girlfriend to other country. I had forgotten which, but is one of the Western Countries. Should say he eloped with his girlfriend (sorry if I use wrong word). At there, he continued his studies and become a professor. I believe it must be a hard life for him. Nobody knows what had happened there but he and his girlfriend came back after many years. Both of them are considering ‘old’ for marriage in this society but what’s next is more touching. Romantically, this professor conducts a big marriage ceremony to marry his girlfriend. This is to let his girlfriend to have a status as his wife. A man who never neglect his girl. The wife is such a blissful woman. She did have her own sacrifices especially at the strong collectivism era but it is a great worth.

At least this professor finally can settle down at his own village and live a happy and ever life. Later on, I heard this professor was encounter with depression. He isolated himself with everyone and locked himself in the house. Maybe because he has a high status at overseas but once he came back he had lost everything. It’s a two different life. At a foreign land, you are a good professor, yet you did not feel being at home. On the other hand, at your own homeland you are just a man who ran away with your love. Now he is fine 

Anyhow, I just want to emphasize on his love story because I found that mostly people change their spouse like changing clothes. He and his wife had decided to hold each other hands and they never let go. No matter how hard, suffer, tough, sad and bitter they go through together. That’s sow in tears and reap in joy! Spouse who had gone through anything together will have stronger bond and more mature relationship.

This not only can apply to boy-girl relationship but also anything that you wish to hold. For instants your HOPE, DREAMS, FAMILIES and FAITH. There are no wrong or right as long as it wouldn't bring bad consequence. Do something that you like, don't trying to please anyone because no matter how good or best you're, people will still have negative feedbacks.

‘To love someone doesn’t mean you need to get married but as long as the one that you love are having a good life even without you’ is what I believe.